From "Awkward" to "Awesome". How Your engagement photoshoot Make You shine on your Wedding Day

You might hear about an engagement photoshoot and think, "What is it? Is that… just another thing on the to-do list?" Believe me, I get it. But as a wedding photographer, I've seen firsthand what a huge value these sessions offer.

IF THESE SOUND FAMILIAR TO YOU, KEEP READING. YOU’LL FIND ALL THE ANSWERS BELOW.

  • "What if we're totally awkward in front of the camera?; "We don’t know how to pose, you’ll need to tell us everything!!"

  • "We want spontaneous, natural wedding pictures but… how can we make sure we're totally relaxed on the actual wedding day?" 

  • "How can we really be comfortable with our photographer on such a personal day?"

  • "Where would we even take these photos? And how do we choose a spot?" We’re too busy even for a date!

Let me explain you why a pre-wedding photoshoot is one of the most rewarding parts of your entire wedding journey.

Black and white photo of a joyful couple on a piggyback ride, laughing during a spontaneous engagement photoshoot

"We want spontaneous, natural wedding pictures but… how can we make sure we're totally relaxed on the actual wedding day?"

"How can we really be comfortable with our photographer on such a personal day?"

Choosing a wedding photographer is a big deal; you're inviting someone into your most important and intimate moments. An engagement photoshoot is a perfect moment to make you feel like one great team with your photographer. On the photoshoot, we'll have a coffee, we’ll chat and laugh. I'll show you how simple it is to feel natural and you will end up with a bunch of beautiful photos. On your wedding day, you'll feel like seasoned pros - relaxed, happy and ready to shine. We’ll say hi to each other like we are old friends - completely comfortable with each other.

Seriously, it's a game-changer for your wedding photos!

Close-up of a couple touching foreheads with eyes closed, capturing an intimate and tender moment on the green background

"What if we're totally awkward in front of the camera?"

"We don’t know how to pose, you need to tell us everything!!"

You don't need to be models, not even close! During your session, I’ll guide you to discover what feels most authentic and comfortable for you two. You'll pick up simple little cues that make you feel confident and look incredible, without ever feeling forced or stiff. It's about letting your real personalities shine through – which later on makes your wedding photography enjoyable and effortless.

"Where would we even take these photos? And how do we choose a spot?"

"We're so busy with plannig, we barely have time for a date!"

Oh, the places we can go! If you are willing to visit Brabant, it offers an amazing array of backdrops for your love story. Think beautiful nature, or the charming cities with that cozy feel of Dutch brick buildings lining the streets. But if traveling to Brabant isn't quite right for you, no problem at all! Your engagement photoshoot is truly a chance to pick any location that is meaningful to you.

My top 5 spots in Brabant as a background for pre-wedding shoots:

  1. De Oude Warande and city streets in Tilburg

  2. De Wilde - beautiful and quiet area with a windmil

  3. The Historic Center of 's-Hertogenbosch

  4. The Loonse en Drunense Duinen

  5. Chasse Botanique in Breda

So, you ask me now: Why is an engagement photoshoot worth it?

Because engagement photoshoots are FUN!! But also:

  • Beyond Your Walls: Your engagement photos aren't just for decorating your house. Imagine using them as lovely accents throughout your wedding day – maybe on invitations, welcome signs, or even in a unique guest book! They might also make a gorgeous addition to your final wedding album.

  • Getting Comfy with Your Photographer: This session is a fantastic chance to really connect with your wedding photographer. Think of it as a relaxed meet-up where you get to know each other, and see how it all works. That familiarity helps ease any stress for your wedding day - a huge win for natural, joyful pictures!

  • Your Camera Practice Run: A pre-wedding shoot gives you a wonderful feel for being in front of the camera, discovering what feels natural and comfortable for you both. It's like a warm-up, so by the time your wedding day arrives, you're both relaxed pros!

Ultimately, the decision for an engagement photoshoot is completely up to you two! But here's my honest advice: If the thought of a camera makes you a bit nervous, yet you dream of spontaneous, natural moments and pure relaxation on your wedding day – then booking an engagement session is the perfect step for you!

If you're looking for a wedding photographer who understands this, and would love to capture beautiful moments with your fiance, here in Brabant or wherever your love story takes you, please don't hesitate to reach out!